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Showing posts with label Writer's Quizzes. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Writer's Quizzes. Show all posts

Monday, October 21, 2013

Writer's Survey Results Are In!

I received 85 responses so far in my survey about whether writer's considered their partners supportive or not. It was a little glitchy for a few of you, and for that, I'm sorry!

But the results are in, and I must say, I'm thinking that writers need a support group dedicated solely to writers who don't feel supported by their partners.

Some notable stats from the survey

Do you consider your partner supportive?

76% said yes, 24% no.
So roughly one-quarter of writers don't feel supported by their partner.

Have you ever gotten in a fight about how much time you spend writing?

61% said no, 39% said yes.  
Thirty-nine percent of writers out there have gotten in a fight about how much time they spend writing!
Now, perhaps I should have asked this question differently, as a few commenters said that they fought about the process of writing, not just time spent writing.

How many arguments have you had?

62% said this question was not applicable. Good for you guys and gals! But more interesting to me as a therapist were the 25% who had between 1-5 fights, the 6% who had less than 10 but more than 5, and the 7% who have had too many fights to count.

It's clear that this is a topic that needs some attention, given the prevalence of fighting and feeling of not being supported.

One interesting stat was the genres represented in the survey. Here's the breakdown:

Almost 48% were comprised of YA/NA and speculative authors. Does that mean YA/spec authors are more likely to take surveys? Be trolling the internet? Seriously...anyone else surprised!

What next?

After reading the comments (and I read everyone...thanks so much for being honest about your struggles with unsupportive partners!), a few themes really stuck out:

1) How do writers help partners (especially non-readers) 
"get" them and their passion?

2) How do writers communicate their physical 
needs to their partners?

3) How do writers communicate their emotional 
needs to their partners?

4) How do writers weather hurtful comments like 
"get a real job" and "when are you going to bring 
home some money?"

So these are the questions I'll be delving into for the next two Mondays at least. I hope you'll join me for these posts!

Let's Analyze

Are there any other questions that you'd like me to address? If so, leave them in the comment section below.

Wednesday, October 2, 2013

Help Get the Word Out! Win a Writer's Guide of Your Choice!

I'm trying to get a lot of responders for the writer's quiz that I posted on Monday about whether writers have supportive or unsupportive partners.

To that end, whoever tweets or facebooks this post (tag me in both), blogs about the quiz (shoot me the link in the comments), or +1s this post on Google will be entered into a drawing for their choice of one of my five Writer's Guides. The more responders I have on the quiz (which is over 50 already--THANKS!), the better the research outcomes.

How entries will be tallied:

Tweets = 2 entries (no limit!!)
Facebook = 2 entries
Blogging = 4 entries
Google + = 2 entires

If you've already tweeted or retweeted one of my tweets, you've been entered already. Really appreciate the help!

Monday, September 30, 2013

Writer's Quiz: Is Your Partner Supportive of Your Writing?

Writers! Help me out. I'm hoping to utilize the information gathered from this quiz to inform an article for a journal. This is such a salient topic for writers...having support is essential to success (well, it helps anyway). Other posts will follow at a later date, analyzing this data, as well as problem solving how to help writers who feel they don't get the support they crave from their partners.

The first eleven questions are required, and the 12th is optional. However, I'd appreciate any and all information from you writers who feel unsupported by your partners. If you'd be willing to further dialogue with me about this topic, please leave your email address in the box for question 11.

Thanks so much!



Wednesday, September 5, 2012

Writer's Quiz: Are You Scared of Spiders?

I jumped in the shower last night only to find a spider holed up in the corner. It completely unnerved me. I blew at it, flicked water at it (completely terrified I might actually dislodge it) and talked to it, telling it that it's time on earth was short. Then I wondered at my reaction. Thus, you're being treated to this quick quiz. Take just a minute and tell me what you would do.


If you must know, the spider is still in its location. I'm thinking of naming it Toby. My daughter is actually happy about this. ?? Pet spider in the bathroom...yay!

Let's Analyze:

Any great spider stories you want to share? I'm all ears.

And don't forget to click here for a chance to win Laura Frantz' new release, Love's Reckoning!

Monday, April 16, 2012

Author Success: From the Inside or Outside?

I've been doing some research lately into what people in my field call "locus of control." Locus is just psychologese for location. (Go figure...why can't we just say location?) What this refers to is where people place responsibility for what happens to them.

When people interpret that what happens to them is controlled by luck, fate, or powerful others (note, very importantly, not belief in a powerful God), this indicates a belief in an external locus of control. On the other hand, if a person interprets their own behavior and personality characteristics as responsible for what happens to them, then this is an internal locus of control. In other words, they believe they can control their own destiny.

There are tons of people going through life trying to be writers, and some make it, some don't. I've read countless posts on blogs about how the timing was wrong or right for getting an agent, contract, or winning a contest. Or how one writer knew that the agents she targeted were way too busy to get back with her or the story she wrote wasn't the kind being sold right now, which was why it hadn't been snatched up.

Wondering which side of the fence you fall on? Don't worry...there's a writer's quiz for you below! For each question, select A or B, then see scoring instructions below.


Rotter's Locus of Control Scale (1966)

1. a. Children get into trouble because their parents punish them too much.
1. b. The trouble with most children nowadays is that their parents are too easy with them.

2. a. Many of the unhappy things in people's lives are partly due to bad luck.
2. b. People's misfortunes result from the mistakes they make.

3. a. One of the major reasons why we have wars is because people don't take enough interest in politics.
3. b. There will always be wars, no matter how hard people try to prevent them.

4. a. In the long run people get the respect they deserve in this world.
4. b. Unfortunately, an individual's worth often passes unrecognized no matter how hard he tries.

5. a. The idea that teachers are unfair to students is nonsense.
5. b. Most students don't realize the extent to which their grades are influenced by accidental happenings.

6. a. Without the right breaks, one cannot be an effective leader.
6. b. Capable people who fail to become leaders have not taken advantage of their opportunities.

7. a. No matter how hard you try, some people just don't like you.
7. b. People who can't get others to like them don't understand how to get along with others.

8. a. Heredity plays the major role in determining one's personality.
8. b. It is one's experiences in life which determine what they're like.

9. a. I have often found that what is going to happen will happen.
9. b. Trusting fate has never turned out as well for me as making a decision to take a definite course of action.

10. a. In the case of the well prepared student there is rarely, if ever, such a thing as an unfair test.
10. b. Many times, exam questions tend to be so unrelated to course work that studying in really useless.

11. a. Becoming a success is a matter of hard work, luck has little or nothing to do with it.
11. b. Getting a good job depends mainly on being in the right place at the right time.

12. a. The average citizen can have an influence in government decisions.
12. b. This world is run by the few people in power, and there is not much the little guy can do about it.

13. a. When I make plans, I am almost certain that I can make them work.
13. b. It is not always wise to plan too far ahead because many things turn out to be a matter of good or bad fortune anyhow.

14. a. There are certain people who are just no good.
14. b. There is some good in everybody.

15. a. In my case getting what I want has little or nothing to do with luck.
15. b. Many times we might just as well decide what to do by flipping a coin.

16. a. Who gets to be the boss often depends on who was lucky enough to be in the right place first. 16. b. Getting people to do the right thing depends upon ability - luck has little or nothing to do with it.

17. a. As far as world affairs are concerned, most of us are the victims of forces we can neither understand, nor control.
17. b. By taking an active part in political and social affairs the people can control world events.

18. a. Most people don't realize the extent to which their lives are controlled by accidental happenings.
18. b. There really is no such thing as "luck."

19. a. One should always be willing to admit mistakes.
19. b. It is usually best to cover up one's mistakes.

20. a. It is hard to know whether or not a person really likes you.
20. b. How many friends you have depends upon how nice a person you are.

21. a. In the long run the bad things that happen to us are balanced by the good ones.
21. b. Most misfortunes are the result of lack of ability, ignorance, laziness, or all three.

22. a. With enough effort we can wipe out political corruption.
22. b. It is difficult for people to have much control over the things politicians do in office.

23. a. Sometimes I can't understand how teachers arrive at the grades they give.
23. b. There is a direct connection between how hard I study and the grades I get.

24. a. A good leader expects people to decide for themselves what they should do.
24. b. A good leader makes it clear to everybody what their jobs are.

25. a. Many times I feel that I have little influence over the things that happen to me.
25. b. It is impossible for me to believe that chance or luck plays an important role in my life.

26. a. People are lonely because they don't try to be friendly.
26. b. There's not much use in trying too hard to please people, if they like you, they like you.

27. a. There is too much emphasis on athletics in high school.
27. b. Team sports are an excellent way to build character.

28. a. What happens to me is my own doing.
28. b. Sometimes I feel that I don't have enough control over the direction my life is taking.

29. a. Most of the time I can't understand why politicians behave the way they do.
29. b. In the long run the people are responsible for bad government on a national as well as on a local level.

Scoring: Give yourself one point for each of the following (some questions were "filler" so they aren't included below):

2. a          12. b        23. a
3. b          13. b        25. a
4. b          15. b        26. b
5. b          16. a        28. b
6. a          17. a        29. a
7. a          18. a
9. a          20. a
10. b        21. a
11. b        22. b

Why should this matter? Because writers with an internal locus of control are more likely take the initiative to change and improve their condition in life and place greater value on inner skill and achievement of goals. External locus of control is linked with more self-pity and depression, as well as anger and loneliness.

Let's Analyze: Besides from having faith in a powerful God, do you think that your life is ordered by chance or fate or other people/things outside your control? Or are you--and your own know-how and skill--the master of your fate?